everyone has seen dicks they didn’t want to see
I was wearing my Gryffindor shirt while Christmas shopping and there was this cute boy in a Slytherin hat and we made eye contact and he looked me up and down and said “10 points to Gryffindor” and winked at me and normally I hate being hit on but damn son that’s the way to do it
Sometimes recovery is waking up early to write in coffee shops and practicing yoga and eating lots of fruit and chocolate and sometimes it’s staying in bed all day and hiding from the world until you can stop crying. All of this is ok. What’s important is that you take care of yourself no matter what kind of day you’re having.
I feel like a lot of people really don’t get this, but just because you’re attracted to a fat person doesn’t erase their fatness. So often I hear shit like, “you’re not fat, you’re beautiful!” because fat is still synonymous with ugly, lazy, sloppy, and a myriad of other negative descriptors. Please don’t say shit like that. I’m fat and beautiful. My fatness doesn’t erase my beauty, and my beauty doesn’t erase my fatness.